Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from opposite sides of the world.
When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with international logistics, everything gets more complicated. Visa issues, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel stressful.
We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t realistic.
Then we found out we could have a legal virtual wedding.
At first, we thought it was too good to be true. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah legally support fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re even accepted in other countries.
We decided to go for it.
Here’s how it worked for us:
- We submitted our documents and filled out a quick form.
- We booked our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
- We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
- And when the day came, we joined the call, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.
I said “I do” from my apartment. My partner said it from their military base.
It was real. It was simple. And it was ours.
The officiant made it feel official. The ceremony was short but meaningful. And we received our certified marriage certificate website the same day — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.
Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has recognized it — no issues at all.
If you’re separated by borders, don’t wait. Online marriage is recognized, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.
We’re proof that love doesn’t need borders — and that what matters most is the vows.